I first heard Kumu Ramsay Taum speak at NAMI Hawaii’s 2019 “Wellness and Self-Care Conference.” He was eloquent, insightful, and charismatic as he spoke about “Ho’oponopono for Balance, Rhythm, Harmony, and Peace.”
One of the things I remember most was that he challenged our way of thinking. Instead of asking what causes us stress, he tells us to ask ourselves, “What is it about me that causes me stress?” In other words, “What is going on inside of me that is causing me to experience stress?”
If I am causing myself to feel stressed, then I have control over it.
Two years, later, after a year full of challenges and uncertainty, it’s easy to blame the pandemic for our anxiety and uncertainty. But blaming the pandemic doesn’t empower us; it helps to make us victims.
Earlier this month, Kumu Ramsay offered a special “Ho’oponopono Cleansing” that he hoped would “help relieve and release the stress that can disrupt physical, mental and spiritual health, balance and peace in this new year.”
He shared thoughts about the Lady of Freedom and led us through a Ho’oponopono Cleansing, as taught by Kahuna La’au Lapa’au Morrnah Simeona. “What we’re seeing outside of us is a reflection what is inside of us,” he stated.
A critical part of cleansing involves forgiveness, for ourselves and by ourselves, as individuals and as families and communities. Please forgive us and our ancestors for what we have done, by word, deed, or inaction… and we forgive you and your ancestors for what you have done, by word, deed, or inaction.
Participate in the “Ho’oponopono Cleansing” on Kumu Ramsay’s YouTube page at https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=egg0c7esrtg&feature=youtu.be
He challenges us to “Learn to be, rather than trying to become.”
For specific strategies for coping with stress and anxiety, join Mental Health America of Hawaii for a free online training on “Tips and Strategies for Surviving and Thriving” on Friday, February 12, 2021 at 12 pm HST. You will learn self-care tips, mental health strategies, and resources for community members, including our most vulnerable, who may have pre-existing mental health challenges. Register online.
Who can you forgive today for their words, actions, or inactions? Who will you seek forgiveness from? What change can you make to take care of yourself and thrive?